Hi All,
wat are ur special plans for this diwali?
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Special Days of FEBRUARY!!!
• 7 Feb Rose Day
8 Feb Propose Day
9 Feb Chocolate Day
10 Feb Teddy Day
11 Feb Promise Day
12 Feb Kiss Day
13 Feb Hug Day
14 Feb VALENTINE’S DAY
15 Feb Slap Day
16 Feb Kick Day
17 Feb Perfume Day
18 Feb Flirting Day
19 Feb Confession Day
20 Feb Missing Day
21 Feb Break Up
8 Feb Propose Day
9 Feb Chocolate Day
10 Feb Teddy Day
11 Feb Promise Day
12 Feb Kiss Day
13 Feb Hug Day
14 Feb VALENTINE’S DAY
15 Feb Slap Day
16 Feb Kick Day
17 Feb Perfume Day
18 Feb Flirting Day
19 Feb Confession Day
20 Feb Missing Day
21 Feb Break Up
Good 1s!!!
# Sign on a railway station at Patna :
Aana free, jaana free,
pakde gaye to khana free.
# Seen on a famous beauty parlor in Bombay :
Don't whistle at the girl going out from here.
She may be your grandmother!
# Seen on a bulletin board:
Success is relative
More the success, more the relatives.
# Sign at a barber's saloon in Juhu, Bombay :
We need your heads to run our business.
# A traffic slogan:
Don't let your kids drive if they are not old enough - or else they never will be.....
#THE BEST ONE:
" Its God's responsibility to forgive the terrorist organizations & It's our responsibility to arrange the meeting between them and God."
- Indian Armed Forces
Aana free, jaana free,
pakde gaye to khana free.
# Seen on a famous beauty parlor in Bombay :
Don't whistle at the girl going out from here.
She may be your grandmother!
# Seen on a bulletin board:
Success is relative
More the success, more the relatives.
# Sign at a barber's saloon in Juhu, Bombay :
We need your heads to run our business.
# A traffic slogan:
Don't let your kids drive if they are not old enough - or else they never will be.....
#THE BEST ONE:
" Its God's responsibility to forgive the terrorist organizations & It's our responsibility to arrange the meeting between them and God."
- Indian Armed Forces
Keyboard shortcuts for WMP11
To do this Use this keyboard shortcut
Zoom to 50 percent ALT+1
Zoom to 100 percent ALT+2
Zoom to 200 percent ALT+3
Show video in full screen ALT+ENTER
Switch to previous view (same as Back button) ALT+LEFT ARROW
Switch to next view (same as Forward button) ALT+RIGHT ARROW
Switch to full mode CTRL+1
Switch to skin mode CTRL+2
Switch to the first view in a media category after Recently Added, such as Artist in Music CTRL+7
Switch to the second view in a media category after Recently Added, such as Album in Music CTRL+8
Switch to the third view in a media category after Recently Added, such as Songs in Music CTRL+9
Play the previous item CTRL+B
Move the focus to the search box in the library CTRL+E
Play the next item CTRL+F
Turn shuffle on or off CTRL+H
Eject CD or DVD (except on computers with two or more CD or DVD disc drives) CTRL+J
Show or hide the Classic Menus (menu bar) in full mode CTRL+M
Create a playlist CTRL+N
Open a file CTRL+O
Play or pause a file CTRL+P
Stop playback CTRL+S
Rewind video CTRL+SHIFT+B
Turn captions and subtitles on or off CTRL+SHIFT+C
Fast-forward through video or music CTRL+SHIFT+F
Play faster than normal speed (time compression) CTRL+SHIFT+G
Play at normal speed CTRL+SHIFT+N
Play slower than normal speed (time expansion) CTRL+SHIFT+S
Repeat the playlist CTRL+T
Specify either a URL or path of a file CTRL+U
Close or stop playing a file CTRL+W
Open Help F1
Show the Classic Menus (menu bar) F10
Switch to full-screen mode F11
Edit media information on a selected item in the library F2
Add media files to the library F3
Change how items are displayed in the Details pane by using the options available with the View Options button F4
Refresh information in the panes F5
Increase the size of album art F6
Mute the volume F7
Decrease the volume F8
Increase the volume F9
Decrease the size of album art SHIFT+F6
Zoom to 50 percent ALT+1
Zoom to 100 percent ALT+2
Zoom to 200 percent ALT+3
Show video in full screen ALT+ENTER
Switch to previous view (same as Back button) ALT+LEFT ARROW
Switch to next view (same as Forward button) ALT+RIGHT ARROW
Switch to full mode CTRL+1
Switch to skin mode CTRL+2
Switch to the first view in a media category after Recently Added, such as Artist in Music CTRL+7
Switch to the second view in a media category after Recently Added, such as Album in Music CTRL+8
Switch to the third view in a media category after Recently Added, such as Songs in Music CTRL+9
Play the previous item CTRL+B
Move the focus to the search box in the library CTRL+E
Play the next item CTRL+F
Turn shuffle on or off CTRL+H
Eject CD or DVD (except on computers with two or more CD or DVD disc drives) CTRL+J
Show or hide the Classic Menus (menu bar) in full mode CTRL+M
Create a playlist CTRL+N
Open a file CTRL+O
Play or pause a file CTRL+P
Stop playback CTRL+S
Rewind video CTRL+SHIFT+B
Turn captions and subtitles on or off CTRL+SHIFT+C
Fast-forward through video or music CTRL+SHIFT+F
Play faster than normal speed (time compression) CTRL+SHIFT+G
Play at normal speed CTRL+SHIFT+N
Play slower than normal speed (time expansion) CTRL+SHIFT+S
Repeat the playlist CTRL+T
Specify either a URL or path of a file CTRL+U
Close or stop playing a file CTRL+W
Open Help F1
Show the Classic Menus (menu bar) F10
Switch to full-screen mode F11
Edit media information on a selected item in the library F2
Add media files to the library F3
Change how items are displayed in the Details pane by using the options available with the View Options button F4
Refresh information in the panes F5
Increase the size of album art F6
Mute the volume F7
Decrease the volume F8
Increase the volume F9
Decrease the size of album art SHIFT+F6
Toilet ki deewar pe likhe hue "Golden Quotes"..
1. Abey itna zor study pe deta to merit list mein naam hota
2. Aap ka bhavishya aap ke hath mein hai
3. Hold it tightly
4. COME CLOSER TO THE TARGET......COS what u're holding is just is a PISTOL not a damn RIFLE.......
5. there r black-outs frquently here.....
SO
SO
So.......LEARN to aim in the dark
6. JOR LAGA K HAISHA.....JOR LAGA K HAISHA......
7. SAVE
PAPER
USE
BOTH
SIDES........
8. the most common one !!!
!@$*&$# ek no. ka M****** he sala.......iss ki to mai ***** maar dunga !!!!
9. in the urinal
In 1947, independence was in our hand, now what's there in your hand ?
10. iss anjumann mein aapko aana hai baar baar.............
deevaaro dar ko gaur se pehchaan lijiye............
11. kitna bhi moot
last boond toh tere chaddi me giregi
hahahaha
12. duniya chand pe gayi tu kaha baitha hai dekh
13. ye kya kiya saale.....unme se ek doctor banne wala tha......hehehehe
2. Aap ka bhavishya aap ke hath mein hai
3. Hold it tightly
4. COME CLOSER TO THE TARGET......COS what u're holding is just is a PISTOL not a damn RIFLE.......
5. there r black-outs frquently here.....
SO
SO
So.......LEARN to aim in the dark
6. JOR LAGA K HAISHA.....JOR LAGA K HAISHA......
7. SAVE
PAPER
USE
BOTH
SIDES........
8. the most common one !!!
!@$*&$# ek no. ka M****** he sala.......iss ki to mai ***** maar dunga !!!!
9. in the urinal
In 1947, independence was in our hand, now what's there in your hand ?
10. iss anjumann mein aapko aana hai baar baar.............
deevaaro dar ko gaur se pehchaan lijiye............
11. kitna bhi moot
last boond toh tere chaddi me giregi
hahahaha
12. duniya chand pe gayi tu kaha baitha hai dekh
13. ye kya kiya saale.....unme se ek doctor banne wala tha......hehehehe
Difference Between Windows repair Installation & Windows Inplace Upgrade
Differences Between an In Place Upgrade and a Repair Install
Here are the differences between what an In Place Upgrade and a Repair Install do.
Remember:
- An In Place Upgrade is started from within a Windows XP desktop.
- A Repair is started by booting from the Windows XP CD.
What an In Place Upgrade Does and Does Not Do.
Changes made during an In Place Upgrade:
• Rolls back any Hot-Fixes, Service Packs, and Microsoft Internet Explorer upgrades to their base versions.
• Refreshes the registry and restores default registry values.
• Reapplies default permissions.
• Re-registers Component Object Model (COM) components and Windows File Protection (WFP) files.
• Re-enumerates Plug and Play devices, including the hardware abstraction layer (HAL). Re-enumerates and changes drive letters, based on the current drives and partitions that are seen during the In-Place Upgrade.
Changes Not made during an In Place Upgrade:
• Does not change the installed components and programs.
• Does not change any passwords. Does not change third-party registry entries.
• Does not change the role of the computer, for example, changing a domain controller server into a member server.
What a Repair Install Does and Does Not Do.
Changes made during a Repair Install:
• Rolls back any Hot-fixes, Service Packs, and Microsoft Internet Explorer upgrades to their base versions. This is like Setup, so any OS supplied files are overwritten with the ones from the Windows XP CD. Additionally added files are left in-place. Drivers may change depending on the version installed and if the driver is redetected and reinstalled. What drivers are installed might be dependant on what is on the system.
• Driver Cache is flushed. So all the additional driver files are removed, including SP1.cab.
• Refreshes the registry and restores default registry values. Some values are reset to default; this is like an upgrade so some settings are migrated.
• Reapplies default permissions (if allowed to). If system account is denied access, we cannot change the file or registry settings.
• Re-registers Component Object Model (COM) components and Windows File Protection (WFP) files. All OS DLL's are registered. WFP runs at the end of GUI mode setup so the files are scanned, all the files should be overwritten, but remember the driver files may still be the ones from the SP or the driver cache folder. I think, not really sure on this, the existing catalogs stay in-place so the files can be from any catalog.
• Re-enumerates Plug and Play devices, including the hardware abstraction layer (HAL). The Hal is redetected, so this could change depending on the scenario.
• Re-enumerates and changes drive letters, based on the current drives and partitions that are seen during the Repair Install.
• Catroot folder shows some of the updated cats but not all of them.
• Some of the new INF files from the service pack remain in place; the files referenced by these INF's are removed.
• Servicepacksourcefile still exists in the registry HKLM\Software\Microsoft\Windows\CurrentVersion\Setup. (Layout and drvindex are gone so the most common pointers to this regkey are removed. (SFC shouldn't have an issue with entry, only newly added components)
Changes Not made during a Repair Install:
• Does not change the installed components and programs.
• Does not change any passwords.
• Does not change third-party registry entries.
• Does not change user accounts or local profiles
Here are the differences between what an In Place Upgrade and a Repair Install do.
Remember:
- An In Place Upgrade is started from within a Windows XP desktop.
- A Repair is started by booting from the Windows XP CD.
What an In Place Upgrade Does and Does Not Do.
Changes made during an In Place Upgrade:
• Rolls back any Hot-Fixes, Service Packs, and Microsoft Internet Explorer upgrades to their base versions.
• Refreshes the registry and restores default registry values.
• Reapplies default permissions.
• Re-registers Component Object Model (COM) components and Windows File Protection (WFP) files.
• Re-enumerates Plug and Play devices, including the hardware abstraction layer (HAL). Re-enumerates and changes drive letters, based on the current drives and partitions that are seen during the In-Place Upgrade.
Changes Not made during an In Place Upgrade:
• Does not change the installed components and programs.
• Does not change any passwords. Does not change third-party registry entries.
• Does not change the role of the computer, for example, changing a domain controller server into a member server.
What a Repair Install Does and Does Not Do.
Changes made during a Repair Install:
• Rolls back any Hot-fixes, Service Packs, and Microsoft Internet Explorer upgrades to their base versions. This is like Setup, so any OS supplied files are overwritten with the ones from the Windows XP CD. Additionally added files are left in-place. Drivers may change depending on the version installed and if the driver is redetected and reinstalled. What drivers are installed might be dependant on what is on the system.
• Driver Cache is flushed. So all the additional driver files are removed, including SP1.cab.
• Refreshes the registry and restores default registry values. Some values are reset to default; this is like an upgrade so some settings are migrated.
• Reapplies default permissions (if allowed to). If system account is denied access, we cannot change the file or registry settings.
• Re-registers Component Object Model (COM) components and Windows File Protection (WFP) files. All OS DLL's are registered. WFP runs at the end of GUI mode setup so the files are scanned, all the files should be overwritten, but remember the driver files may still be the ones from the SP or the driver cache folder. I think, not really sure on this, the existing catalogs stay in-place so the files can be from any catalog.
• Re-enumerates Plug and Play devices, including the hardware abstraction layer (HAL). The Hal is redetected, so this could change depending on the scenario.
• Re-enumerates and changes drive letters, based on the current drives and partitions that are seen during the Repair Install.
• Catroot folder shows some of the updated cats but not all of them.
• Some of the new INF files from the service pack remain in place; the files referenced by these INF's are removed.
• Servicepacksourcefile still exists in the registry HKLM\Software\Microsoft\Windows\CurrentVersion\Setup. (Layout and drvindex are gone so the most common pointers to this regkey are removed. (SFC shouldn't have an issue with entry, only newly added components)
Changes Not made during a Repair Install:
• Does not change the installed components and programs.
• Does not change any passwords.
• Does not change third-party registry entries.
• Does not change user accounts or local profiles
Good 1s...
1. If time doesn't wait for you, don't worry!
Just remove the damn battery from the clock and Enjoy life!
2. Expecting the world to treat u fairly coz u r a good person is like
expecting the lion not to attack u coz u r a vegetarian.
Think about it.
3. Beauty isn't measured by outer appearance and what clothes we wear,
but what we are inside
. So, try going out naked tomorrow and see the admiration!
4. Don't walk as if you rule the world,
walk as if you don't care who rules the world!
That's called Attitude…! Keep on rocking!
5. Every lady hopes
that her daughter will marry a better man than she did
and is convinced that her son will never find a wife as good as his father did!!!
6. He was a good man. He never smoked, drank had no affair.
When he died, the insurance company refused the claim.
They said
, he who never lived, cannot die!
7. A man threw his wife in a pond of Crocodiles?
He's now being harassed by the Animal Rights Activists for being cruel to the Crocodiles!
8. So many options for suicide:
Poison, sleeping pills, hanging,
jumping from a building, lying on train tracks,
but we chose Marriage, slow sure!
9. Only 20 percent boys have brains, rest have girlfriends!
10. All desirable things in life are either
illegal, banned, expensive or married to someone else!
11. Laziness is our biggest enemy- Jawaharlal Nehru
We should learn to love our enemies- Mahatma Gandhi
Ab aap bataaye kiski sune bapu di ya chacha di???
12. When things go wrong, when sadness fills your heart,
When tears flows from your eyes always say these words…
Eh Ganpat, chal daru la…
13. 10% of road accidents are due to drunken driving.
Which makes it a logical statement that
90% of accidents are due to driving without drinking!
Just remove the damn battery from the clock and Enjoy life!
2. Expecting the world to treat u fairly coz u r a good person is like
expecting the lion not to attack u coz u r a vegetarian.
Think about it.
3. Beauty isn't measured by outer appearance and what clothes we wear,
but what we are inside
. So, try going out naked tomorrow and see the admiration!
4. Don't walk as if you rule the world,
walk as if you don't care who rules the world!
That's called Attitude…! Keep on rocking!
5. Every lady hopes
that her daughter will marry a better man than she did
and is convinced that her son will never find a wife as good as his father did!!!
6. He was a good man. He never smoked, drank had no affair.
When he died, the insurance company refused the claim.
They said
, he who never lived, cannot die!
7. A man threw his wife in a pond of Crocodiles?
He's now being harassed by the Animal Rights Activists for being cruel to the Crocodiles!
8. So many options for suicide:
Poison, sleeping pills, hanging,
jumping from a building, lying on train tracks,
but we chose Marriage, slow sure!
9. Only 20 percent boys have brains, rest have girlfriends!
10. All desirable things in life are either
illegal, banned, expensive or married to someone else!
11. Laziness is our biggest enemy- Jawaharlal Nehru
We should learn to love our enemies- Mahatma Gandhi
Ab aap bataaye kiski sune bapu di ya chacha di???
12. When things go wrong, when sadness fills your heart,
When tears flows from your eyes always say these words…
Eh Ganpat, chal daru la…
13. 10% of road accidents are due to drunken driving.
Which makes it a logical statement that
90% of accidents are due to driving without drinking!
This is especially for YOU.
1. Someone in this world Loves you,in some way.
2. A smile from you,can bring happiness to anyone,even if they don't like you.
3. Every night,SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.
4. You mean the world to someone.
5. Without you,someone may not be living.
6. You are special and unique,in your own way.
7. Someone that you don't know even exists,loves you.
8. When you make the biggest mistake ever,something good comes from it.
9. When you think the world has turned it's back on you,take a look,you most likely turned your back on the world.
10. When you think you have no chance at getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you believe in yourself,you probably sooner or later will get it.
11.Always remember complements you received,forget about the rude remarks.
12.Always tell someone how you feel about them,you will feel much better when they know
2. A smile from you,can bring happiness to anyone,even if they don't like you.
3. Every night,SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.
4. You mean the world to someone.
5. Without you,someone may not be living.
6. You are special and unique,in your own way.
7. Someone that you don't know even exists,loves you.
8. When you make the biggest mistake ever,something good comes from it.
9. When you think the world has turned it's back on you,take a look,you most likely turned your back on the world.
10. When you think you have no chance at getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you believe in yourself,you probably sooner or later will get it.
11.Always remember complements you received,forget about the rude remarks.
12.Always tell someone how you feel about them,you will feel much better when they know
Secrets Of Love
The First Secret - The Power Of Thought
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.
The Second Secret - The Power Of Respect
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect asks yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"
The Third Secret - The Power Of Giving
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.
The Fourth Secret - The Power Of Friendship
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.
The Fifth Secret - The Power Of Touch
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.
The Sixth Secret - The Power Of Letting Go
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."
The Seventh Secret - The Power Of Communication
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and.. Why are you waiting?
The Eighth Secret - The Power Of Commitment
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.
The Ninth Secret - The Power Of Passion
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.
The Tenth Secret - The Power Of Trust
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels wrapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly?" If the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.
The Second Secret - The Power Of Respect
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect asks yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"
The Third Secret - The Power Of Giving
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.
The Fourth Secret - The Power Of Friendship
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.
The Fifth Secret - The Power Of Touch
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.
The Sixth Secret - The Power Of Letting Go
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."
The Seventh Secret - The Power Of Communication
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and.. Why are you waiting?
The Eighth Secret - The Power Of Commitment
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.
The Ninth Secret - The Power Of Passion
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.
The Tenth Secret - The Power Of Trust
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels wrapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly?" If the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.
Relationships!!!
TRUST
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB . Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."
NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than
you."
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive others, others will ignore our mistake too.
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my
leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television."
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations. .
RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home,a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?"Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman."
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..
BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?"
The father went home & committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge . Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB . Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."
NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than
you."
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive others, others will ignore our mistake too.
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my
leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television."
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations. .
RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home,a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?"Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman."
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..
BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?"
The father went home & committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge . Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
Ur Horoscope..
ARIES MARCH 21 - APRIL 20
Nothing seems to ruffle you more than a lack of discipline, disloyalty
and decorum. But Arians are also known to go into a rage very easily
when challenged. Those of you who have been on the receiving end of the
Aries temper know that if not calmed down they can even get violent. But
one thing is certain if the opponent remains calm and does not react to
their outburst, Arians cool down very fast. They are also the first to
apologize, which makes them easier to forgive.
TAURUS APRIL 21 - MAY 20
You are generally quiet and have control over your emotions. It is
difficult to predict what will upset you, so when you do lose your cool,
people don't know how to react. Your temper is like that of a raging
bull, and anyone trying to pacify you will be the first one to get a
verbal bashing. You generally get upset when you are concerned or when
people accuse you of doing something wrong. You also hate being reminded
about mistakes you've made in the past. You also have the potential to
be terribly vindictive if rubbed the wrong way.
GEMINI MAY 21 - June 29
You are recognised by your cheerful disposition and your jovial nature
is easily susceptible to anger. In fact, you are the best person to have
around when there is an ugly scene at a party you can bring the warring
factions together quite diplomatically. But when you lose cool, you yell
and scream and will not listen to reason. You must have the last word in
a wordy duel. Your capacity to argue aggressively is matched only by
your seductive charm.
CANCER JUNE 21 - JULY 21
Considering how charming, caring and kind you are, you dislike
unpleasant scenes, much less creating one yourself. You have great
tolerance and rarely get provoked into losing your temper. If someone is
unreasonable or trying to create trouble, you are more likely to walk
away quietly. But that does not mean you do not have a temper. When
angry, in your effort to control your emotions, you tremble, your hands
get sweaty and sometimes you fumble for words. Tears roll down your eyes
easily and the opponent is touched by your innocence and will seek an
apology immediately.
LEO JULY 22 - AUGUST 21
If anyone has total control over their emotions, it is you. But then,
you can be described as stiff, cold and uncaring. You are known to lack
spontaneity but you really don't care about opinions. You don't like to
create scenes and will never accept invitations to a party where you
suspect the presence of an unruly lot. But your very presence seems
challenging to some and they take vicarious pleasure in your disquiet.
When angry you can use critical language. A dressing down can humiliate
your opponent, causing a strain between both of you forever.
VIRGO AUGUST 22 - SEPTEMBER 21
Most of you are gentle and have full control over your emotions but
those of you given to temper tantrums can certainly get violent. When
see things with rage, you yell and shout and tend to break things lying
close at hand. You can even harm yourself by banging your hands on a
glass top table or wall. You should never get into any argument, for you
are a sore loser. You feel that others are trying to persecute you and
don't quite respect your opinions. When hurt, you can also hold grudges
forever.
LIBRA SEPTEMBER 22 - OCTOBER 22
Did someone say that you are the charmers of the zodiac? Well, it's
true. Few have ever seen you ruffled or angry. You are very conscious of
your image, and you believe that anger distorts your face and
personality. You also think you are above things like anger. But wait
before you get into self-congratulatory mood. Your family or those very
close to you know you better. You have an unmatched temper amongst all
the zodiac signs, and what makes it worse is your capacity to justify
it.
SCORPIO OCTOBER 23 - NOVEMBER 21
Of course you don't lose your cool. But your very demeanor (manner)
projects haughtiness (arrogance, pride), pride and grand disdain
(disregard) for lesser mortals (human). Others are often found saying
that anger sits on your nose and you are raring to give your piece mind
to the first person who try to be funny with you. You are selective in
the choice of your friends, and have a low tolerance for the superfluous
(extra) types. Your tongue-lashing (attack) is generally in a soft
hissing tone for when you scream, your voice tends to get shrill and
loud and you do hate drawing attention to yourself! When upset, you are
angrier with yourself for having shown weakness, for the last thing that
Scorpio wants to show is being out of control.
SAGITTARIUS (NOVEMBER 22 - DECEMBER 20)
You are insensible and generally have no complete control over your
emotions. You do get angry quickly and others marvel at your anger
levels even when provoked. Actually, you get tongue-tied when angry and
you will remove your anger waiting for the other person to calm down.
Then you will reason with your opponent and convince the other person in
a very gentle manner that the whole thing was just his mistake. You're
also likely to totally sever ties with someone when you're upset with
them.
CAPRICORN (DECEMBER 21 - JANUARY 19)
Few will believe that a hardcore practical and materialistic person like
you is capable of sensitivity and genuine emotions. You project a hard
exterior but are actually very sensitive, a trait you successfully hide
from others. You can see thing with anger but will not betray your
feelings. But then, there are times that even you cannot control your
temper. Under such circumstances you can shout and scream, more with
frustration at the situation than with anger at any particular person.
Your outbursts can shock others and can make them feel guilty too.
AQUARIUS (JANUARY 20 - FEBRUARY 18)
You are noble and kind and dislike losing control over your emotions. It
is very rare for you to get angry. You are also the pacifier in
situations that involve arguments. It is always your endeavor to be
perfect and socially correct in your behavior and attitude, but if
misunderstood and slighted you can give in to an angry outburst. You
will shout and scream and then walk out from the scene. You cannot
easily forget the situation and will be bitter about it for a long time.
PISCES (FEBRUARY 19 - MARCH 20)
The only thing that can be said about you dreamers is that you appear
even more attractive when angry. You are very sensitive to others'
feelings, so you rarely hurt them. But when others tend to hurt you,
then things take a nasty turn. You will yell and use harsh words and
feel inclined to shake everything and everyone up. Your creative
imagination is at its best when angry, and you tend to get pretty
dramatic. When upset, you refuse to listen to reason and wish to be left
alone. But once you calm down, you repent your tantrums and seek
forgiveness. SO nobody can be upset with you for too long.
Nothing seems to ruffle you more than a lack of discipline, disloyalty
and decorum. But Arians are also known to go into a rage very easily
when challenged. Those of you who have been on the receiving end of the
Aries temper know that if not calmed down they can even get violent. But
one thing is certain if the opponent remains calm and does not react to
their outburst, Arians cool down very fast. They are also the first to
apologize, which makes them easier to forgive.
TAURUS APRIL 21 - MAY 20
You are generally quiet and have control over your emotions. It is
difficult to predict what will upset you, so when you do lose your cool,
people don't know how to react. Your temper is like that of a raging
bull, and anyone trying to pacify you will be the first one to get a
verbal bashing. You generally get upset when you are concerned or when
people accuse you of doing something wrong. You also hate being reminded
about mistakes you've made in the past. You also have the potential to
be terribly vindictive if rubbed the wrong way.
GEMINI MAY 21 - June 29
You are recognised by your cheerful disposition and your jovial nature
is easily susceptible to anger. In fact, you are the best person to have
around when there is an ugly scene at a party you can bring the warring
factions together quite diplomatically. But when you lose cool, you yell
and scream and will not listen to reason. You must have the last word in
a wordy duel. Your capacity to argue aggressively is matched only by
your seductive charm.
CANCER JUNE 21 - JULY 21
Considering how charming, caring and kind you are, you dislike
unpleasant scenes, much less creating one yourself. You have great
tolerance and rarely get provoked into losing your temper. If someone is
unreasonable or trying to create trouble, you are more likely to walk
away quietly. But that does not mean you do not have a temper. When
angry, in your effort to control your emotions, you tremble, your hands
get sweaty and sometimes you fumble for words. Tears roll down your eyes
easily and the opponent is touched by your innocence and will seek an
apology immediately.
LEO JULY 22 - AUGUST 21
If anyone has total control over their emotions, it is you. But then,
you can be described as stiff, cold and uncaring. You are known to lack
spontaneity but you really don't care about opinions. You don't like to
create scenes and will never accept invitations to a party where you
suspect the presence of an unruly lot. But your very presence seems
challenging to some and they take vicarious pleasure in your disquiet.
When angry you can use critical language. A dressing down can humiliate
your opponent, causing a strain between both of you forever.
VIRGO AUGUST 22 - SEPTEMBER 21
Most of you are gentle and have full control over your emotions but
those of you given to temper tantrums can certainly get violent. When
see things with rage, you yell and shout and tend to break things lying
close at hand. You can even harm yourself by banging your hands on a
glass top table or wall. You should never get into any argument, for you
are a sore loser. You feel that others are trying to persecute you and
don't quite respect your opinions. When hurt, you can also hold grudges
forever.
LIBRA SEPTEMBER 22 - OCTOBER 22
Did someone say that you are the charmers of the zodiac? Well, it's
true. Few have ever seen you ruffled or angry. You are very conscious of
your image, and you believe that anger distorts your face and
personality. You also think you are above things like anger. But wait
before you get into self-congratulatory mood. Your family or those very
close to you know you better. You have an unmatched temper amongst all
the zodiac signs, and what makes it worse is your capacity to justify
it.
SCORPIO OCTOBER 23 - NOVEMBER 21
Of course you don't lose your cool. But your very demeanor (manner)
projects haughtiness (arrogance, pride), pride and grand disdain
(disregard) for lesser mortals (human). Others are often found saying
that anger sits on your nose and you are raring to give your piece mind
to the first person who try to be funny with you. You are selective in
the choice of your friends, and have a low tolerance for the superfluous
(extra) types. Your tongue-lashing (attack) is generally in a soft
hissing tone for when you scream, your voice tends to get shrill and
loud and you do hate drawing attention to yourself! When upset, you are
angrier with yourself for having shown weakness, for the last thing that
Scorpio wants to show is being out of control.
SAGITTARIUS (NOVEMBER 22 - DECEMBER 20)
You are insensible and generally have no complete control over your
emotions. You do get angry quickly and others marvel at your anger
levels even when provoked. Actually, you get tongue-tied when angry and
you will remove your anger waiting for the other person to calm down.
Then you will reason with your opponent and convince the other person in
a very gentle manner that the whole thing was just his mistake. You're
also likely to totally sever ties with someone when you're upset with
them.
CAPRICORN (DECEMBER 21 - JANUARY 19)
Few will believe that a hardcore practical and materialistic person like
you is capable of sensitivity and genuine emotions. You project a hard
exterior but are actually very sensitive, a trait you successfully hide
from others. You can see thing with anger but will not betray your
feelings. But then, there are times that even you cannot control your
temper. Under such circumstances you can shout and scream, more with
frustration at the situation than with anger at any particular person.
Your outbursts can shock others and can make them feel guilty too.
AQUARIUS (JANUARY 20 - FEBRUARY 18)
You are noble and kind and dislike losing control over your emotions. It
is very rare for you to get angry. You are also the pacifier in
situations that involve arguments. It is always your endeavor to be
perfect and socially correct in your behavior and attitude, but if
misunderstood and slighted you can give in to an angry outburst. You
will shout and scream and then walk out from the scene. You cannot
easily forget the situation and will be bitter about it for a long time.
PISCES (FEBRUARY 19 - MARCH 20)
The only thing that can be said about you dreamers is that you appear
even more attractive when angry. You are very sensitive to others'
feelings, so you rarely hurt them. But when others tend to hurt you,
then things take a nasty turn. You will yell and use harsh words and
feel inclined to shake everything and everyone up. Your creative
imagination is at its best when angry, and you tend to get pretty
dramatic. When upset, you refuse to listen to reason and wish to be left
alone. But once you calm down, you repent your tantrums and seek
forgiveness. SO nobody can be upset with you for too long.
Nine words women use...
1.) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.
2.) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
3! .) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.
4.) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!
5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)
6.) That's Okay: This is one of the ! most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
7.) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome.
8.) Whatever: Is a women's way of saying F **K U!
9.) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking "What's wrong?" For the woman's response refer to.
2.) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
3! .) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.
4.) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!
5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)
6.) That's Okay: This is one of the ! most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
7.) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome.
8.) Whatever: Is a women's way of saying F **K U!
9.) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking "What's wrong?" For the woman's response refer to.
रिश्ते
अक्सर रिश्तों को रोते हुए देखा है,
अपनों की ही बाँहो में मरते हुए देखा है
टूटते, बिखरते, सिसकते, कसकते
रिश्तों का इतिहास,
दिल पे लिखा है बेहिसाब!
प्यार की आँच में पक कर पक्के होते जो,
वे कब कौन सी आग में झुलसते चले जाते हैं,
झुलसते चले जाते हैं और राख हो जाते हैं!
क्या वे नियति से नियत घड़ियाँ लिखा कर लाते हैं?
कौन सी कमी कहाँ रह जाती है
कि वे अस्तित्वहीन हो जाते हैं,
या एक अरसे की पूर्ण जिन्दगी जी कर,
वे अपने अन्तिम मुकाम पर पहुँच जाते हैं!
मैंने देखे हैं कुछ रिश्ते धन-दौलत पे टिके होते हैं,
कुछ चालबाजों से लुटे होते हैं-गहरा धोखा खाए होते हैं
कुछ आँसुओं से खारे और नम हुए होते हैं,
कुछ रिश्ते अभावों में पले होते हैं-
पर भावों से भरे होते है! बड़े ही खरे होते हैं !
कुछ रिश्ते, रिश्तों की कब्र पर बने होते हैं,
जो कभी पनपते नहीं, बहुत समय तक जीते नहीं
दुर्भाग्य और दुखों के तूफान से बचते नहीं!
स्वार्थ पर बनें रिश्ते बुलबुले की तरह उठते हैं
कुछ देर बने रहते हैं और गायब हो जाते हैं;
कुछ रिश्ते दूरियों में ओझल हो जाते हैं,
जाने वाले के साथ दूर चले जाते हैं !
कुछ नजदीकियों की भेंट चढ़ जाते हैं,
कुछ शक से सुन्न हो जाते हैं !
कुछ अतिविश्वास की बलि चढ़ जाते हैं!
फिर भी रिश्ते बनते हैं, बिगड़ते हैं,
जीते हैं, मरते हैं, लड़खड़ाते हैं, लंगड़ाते हैं
तेरे मेरे उसके द्वारा घसीटे जाते हैं,
कभी रस्मों की बैसाखी पे चलाए जाते हैं!
पर कुछ रिश्ते ऐसे भी हैं
जो जन्म से लेकर बचपन जवानी - बुढ़ापे से गुजरते हुए,
बड़ी गरिमा से जीते हुए महान महिमाय हो जाते हैं !
ऐसे रिश्ते सदियों में नजर आते हैं !
जब कभी सच्चा रिश्ता नजर आया है
कृष्ण की बाँसुरी ने गीत गुनगुनाया है!
आसमां में ईद का चाँद मुस्कराया है!
या सूरज रात में ही निकल आया है!
ईद का चाँद रोज नहीं दिखता,
इन्द्रधनुष भी कभी-कभी खिलता है!
इसलिए शायद - प्यारा खरा रिश्ता
सदियों में दिखता है, मुश्किल से मिलता है पर,
दिखता है, मिलता है, यही क्या कम है .. !!!
अपनों की ही बाँहो में मरते हुए देखा है
टूटते, बिखरते, सिसकते, कसकते
रिश्तों का इतिहास,
दिल पे लिखा है बेहिसाब!
प्यार की आँच में पक कर पक्के होते जो,
वे कब कौन सी आग में झुलसते चले जाते हैं,
झुलसते चले जाते हैं और राख हो जाते हैं!
क्या वे नियति से नियत घड़ियाँ लिखा कर लाते हैं?
कौन सी कमी कहाँ रह जाती है
कि वे अस्तित्वहीन हो जाते हैं,
या एक अरसे की पूर्ण जिन्दगी जी कर,
वे अपने अन्तिम मुकाम पर पहुँच जाते हैं!
मैंने देखे हैं कुछ रिश्ते धन-दौलत पे टिके होते हैं,
कुछ चालबाजों से लुटे होते हैं-गहरा धोखा खाए होते हैं
कुछ आँसुओं से खारे और नम हुए होते हैं,
कुछ रिश्ते अभावों में पले होते हैं-
पर भावों से भरे होते है! बड़े ही खरे होते हैं !
कुछ रिश्ते, रिश्तों की कब्र पर बने होते हैं,
जो कभी पनपते नहीं, बहुत समय तक जीते नहीं
दुर्भाग्य और दुखों के तूफान से बचते नहीं!
स्वार्थ पर बनें रिश्ते बुलबुले की तरह उठते हैं
कुछ देर बने रहते हैं और गायब हो जाते हैं;
कुछ रिश्ते दूरियों में ओझल हो जाते हैं,
जाने वाले के साथ दूर चले जाते हैं !
कुछ नजदीकियों की भेंट चढ़ जाते हैं,
कुछ शक से सुन्न हो जाते हैं !
कुछ अतिविश्वास की बलि चढ़ जाते हैं!
फिर भी रिश्ते बनते हैं, बिगड़ते हैं,
जीते हैं, मरते हैं, लड़खड़ाते हैं, लंगड़ाते हैं
तेरे मेरे उसके द्वारा घसीटे जाते हैं,
कभी रस्मों की बैसाखी पे चलाए जाते हैं!
पर कुछ रिश्ते ऐसे भी हैं
जो जन्म से लेकर बचपन जवानी - बुढ़ापे से गुजरते हुए,
बड़ी गरिमा से जीते हुए महान महिमाय हो जाते हैं !
ऐसे रिश्ते सदियों में नजर आते हैं !
जब कभी सच्चा रिश्ता नजर आया है
कृष्ण की बाँसुरी ने गीत गुनगुनाया है!
आसमां में ईद का चाँद मुस्कराया है!
या सूरज रात में ही निकल आया है!
ईद का चाँद रोज नहीं दिखता,
इन्द्रधनुष भी कभी-कभी खिलता है!
इसलिए शायद - प्यारा खरा रिश्ता
सदियों में दिखता है, मुश्किल से मिलता है पर,
दिखता है, मिलता है, यही क्या कम है .. !!!
List of the keyboard shortcuts that are available in Windows XP
General keyboard shortcuts
• CTRL+C (Copy)
• CTRL+X (Cut)
• CTRL+V (Paste)
• CTRL+Z (Undo)
• DELETE (Delete)
• SHIFT+DELETE (Delete the selected item permanently without placing the item in the Recycle Bin)
• CTRL while dragging an item (Copy the selected item)
• CTRL+SHIFT while dragging an item (Create a shortcut to the selected item)
• F2 key (Rename the selected item)
• CTRL+RIGHT ARROW (Move the insertion point to the beginning of the next word)
• CTRL+LEFT ARROW (Move the insertion point to the beginning of the previous word)
• CTRL+DOWN ARROW (Move the insertion point to the beginning of the next paragraph)
• CTRL+UP ARROW (Move the insertion point to the beginning of the previous paragraph)
• CTRL+SHIFT with any of the arrow keys (Highlight a block of text)
• SHIFT with any of the arrow keys (Select more than one item in a window or on the desktop, or select text in a document)
• CTRL+A (Select all)
• F3 key (Search for a file or a folder)
• ALT+ENTER (View the properties for the selected item)
• ALT+F4 (Close the active item, or quit the active program)
• ALT+ENTER (Display the properties of the selected object)
• ALT+SPACEBAR (Open the shortcut menu for the active window)
• CTRL+F4 (Close the active document in programs that enable you to have multiple documents open simultaneously)
• ALT+TAB (Switch between the open items)
• ALT+ESC (Cycle through items in the order that they had been opened)
• F6 key (Cycle through the screen elements in a window or on the desktop)
• F4 key (Display the Address bar list in My Computer or Windows Explorer)
• SHIFT+F10 (Display the shortcut menu for the selected item)
• ALT+SPACEBAR (Display the System menu for the active window)
• CTRL+ESC (Display the Start menu)
• ALT+Underlined letter in a menu name (Display the corresponding menu)
• Underlined letter in a command name on an open menu (Perform the corresponding command)
• F10 key (Activate the menu bar in the active program)
• RIGHT ARROW (Open the next menu to the right, or open a submenu)
• LEFT ARROW (Open the next menu to the left, or close a submenu)
• F5 key (Update the active window)
• BACKSPACE (View the folder one level up in My Computer or Windows Explorer)
• ESC (Cancel the current task)
• SHIFT when you insert a CD-ROM into the CD-ROM drive (Prevent the CD-ROM from automatically playing)
• CTRL+SHIFT+ESC (Open Task Manager)
Dialog box keyboard shortcuts
If you press SHIFT+F8 in extended selection list boxes, you enable extended selection mode. In this mode, you can use an arrow key to move a cursor without changing the selection. You can press CTRL+SPACEBAR or SHIFT+SPACEBAR to adjust the selection. To cancel extended selection mode, press SHIFT+F8 again. Extended selection mode cancels itself when you move the focus to another control.
• CTRL+TAB (Move forward through the tabs)
• CTRL+SHIFT+TAB (Move backward through the tabs)
• TAB (Move forward through the options)
• SHIFT+TAB (Move backward through the options)
• ALT+Underlined letter (Perform the corresponding command or select the corresponding option)
• ENTER (Perform the command for the active option or button)
• SPACEBAR (Select or clear the check box if the active option is a check box)
• Arrow keys (Select a button if the active option is a group of option buttons)
• F1 key (Display Help)
• F4 key (Display the items in the active list)
• BACKSPACE (Open a folder one level up if a folder is selected in the Save As or Open dialog box)
Microsoft natural keyboard shortcuts
• Windows Logo (Display or hide the Start menu)
• Windows Logo+BREAK (Display the System Properties dialog box)
• Windows Logo+D (Display the desktop)
• Windows Logo+M (Minimize all of the windows)
• Windows Logo+SHIFT+M (Restore the minimized windows)
• Windows Logo+E (Open My Computer)
• Windows Logo+F (Search for a file or a folder)
• CTRL+Windows Logo+F (Search for computers)
• Windows Logo+F1 (Display Windows Help)
• Windows Logo+ L (Lock the keyboard)
• Windows Logo+R (Open the Run dialog box)
• Windows Logo+U (Open Utility Manager)
Accessibility keyboard shortcuts
• Right SHIFT for eight seconds (Switch FilterKeys either on or off)
• Left ALT+left SHIFT+PRINT SCREEN (Switch High Contrast either on or off)
• Left ALT+left SHIFT+NUM LOCK (Switch the MouseKeys either on or off)
• SHIFT five times (Switch the StickyKeys either on or off)
• NUM LOCK for five seconds (Switch the ToggleKeys either on or off)
• Windows Logo +U (Open Utility Manager)
Windows Explorer keyboard shortcuts
• END (Display the bottom of the active window)
• HOME (Display the top of the active window)
• NUM LOCK+Asterisk sign (*) (Display all of the subfolders that are under the selected folder)
• NUM LOCK+Plus sign (+) (Display the contents of the selected folder)
• NUM LOCK+Minus sign (-) (Collapse the selected folder)
• LEFT ARROW (Collapse the current selection if it is expanded, or select the parent folder)
• RIGHT ARROW (Display the current selection if it is collapsed, or select the first subfolder)
Shortcut keys for Character Map
After you double-click a character on the grid of characters, you can move through the grid by using the keyboard shortcuts:
• RIGHT ARROW (Move to the right or to the beginning of the next line)
• LEFT ARROW (Move to the left or to the end of the previous line)
• UP ARROW (Move up one row)
• DOWN ARROW (Move down one row)
• PAGE UP (Move up one screen at a time)
• PAGE DOWN (Move down one screen at a time)
• HOME (Move to the beginning of the line)
• END (Move to the end of the line)
• CTRL+HOME (Move to the first character)
• CTRL+END (Move to the last character)
• SPACEBAR (Switch between Enlarged and Normal mode when a character is selected)
Microsoft Management Console (MMC) main window keyboard shortcuts
• CTRL+O (Open a saved console)
• CTRL+N (Open a new console)
• CTRL+S (Save the open console)
• CTRL+M (Add or remove a console item)
• CTRL+W (Open a new window)
• F5 key (Update the content of all console windows)
• ALT+SPACEBAR (Display the MMC window menu)
• ALT+F4 (Close the console)
• ALT+A (Display the Action menu)
• ALT+V (Display the View menu)
• ALT+F (Display the File menu)
• ALT+O (Display the Favorites menu)
MMC console window keyboard shortcuts
• CTRL+P (Print the current page or active pane)
• ALT+Minus sign (-) (Display the window menu for the active console window)
• SHIFT+F10 (Display the Action shortcut menu for the selected item)
• F1 key (Open the Help topic, if any, for the selected item)
• F5 key (Update the content of all console windows)
• CTRL+F10 (Maximize the active console window)
• CTRL+F5 (Restore the active console window)
• ALT+ENTER (Display the Properties dialog box, if any, for the selected item)
• F2 key (Rename the selected item)
• CTRL+F4 (Close the active console window. When a console has only one console window, this shortcut closes the console)
Remote desktop connection navigation
• CTRL+ALT+END (Open the Microsoft Windows NT Security dialog box)
• ALT+PAGE UP (Switch between programs from left to right)
• ALT+PAGE DOWN (Switch between programs from right to left)
• ALT+INSERT (Cycle through the programs in most recently used order)
• ALT+HOME (Display the Start menu)
• CTRL+ALT+BREAK (Switch the client computer between a window and a full screen)
• ALT+DELETE (Display the Windows menu)
• CTRL+ALT+Minus sign (-) (Place a snapshot of the entire client window area on the Terminal server clipboard and provide the same functionality as pressing ALT+PRINT SCREEN on a local computer.)
• CTRL+ALT+Plus sign (+) (Place a snapshot of the active window in the client on the Terminal server clipboard and provide the same functionality as pressing PRINT SCREEN on a local computer.)
Microsoft Internet Explorer navigation
• CTRL+B (Open the Organize Favorites dialog box)
• CTRL+E (Open the Search bar)
• CTRL+F (Start the Find utility)
• CTRL+H (Open the History bar)
• CTRL+I (Open the Favorites bar)
• CTRL+L (Open the Open dialog box)
• CTRL+N (Start another instance of the browser with the same Web address)
• CTRL+O (Open the Open dialog box, the same as CTRL+L)
• CTRL+P (Open the Print dialog box)
• CTRL+R (Update the current Web page)
• CTRL+W (Close the current window)
• CTRL+C (Copy)
• CTRL+X (Cut)
• CTRL+V (Paste)
• CTRL+Z (Undo)
• DELETE (Delete)
• SHIFT+DELETE (Delete the selected item permanently without placing the item in the Recycle Bin)
• CTRL while dragging an item (Copy the selected item)
• CTRL+SHIFT while dragging an item (Create a shortcut to the selected item)
• F2 key (Rename the selected item)
• CTRL+RIGHT ARROW (Move the insertion point to the beginning of the next word)
• CTRL+LEFT ARROW (Move the insertion point to the beginning of the previous word)
• CTRL+DOWN ARROW (Move the insertion point to the beginning of the next paragraph)
• CTRL+UP ARROW (Move the insertion point to the beginning of the previous paragraph)
• CTRL+SHIFT with any of the arrow keys (Highlight a block of text)
• SHIFT with any of the arrow keys (Select more than one item in a window or on the desktop, or select text in a document)
• CTRL+A (Select all)
• F3 key (Search for a file or a folder)
• ALT+ENTER (View the properties for the selected item)
• ALT+F4 (Close the active item, or quit the active program)
• ALT+ENTER (Display the properties of the selected object)
• ALT+SPACEBAR (Open the shortcut menu for the active window)
• CTRL+F4 (Close the active document in programs that enable you to have multiple documents open simultaneously)
• ALT+TAB (Switch between the open items)
• ALT+ESC (Cycle through items in the order that they had been opened)
• F6 key (Cycle through the screen elements in a window or on the desktop)
• F4 key (Display the Address bar list in My Computer or Windows Explorer)
• SHIFT+F10 (Display the shortcut menu for the selected item)
• ALT+SPACEBAR (Display the System menu for the active window)
• CTRL+ESC (Display the Start menu)
• ALT+Underlined letter in a menu name (Display the corresponding menu)
• Underlined letter in a command name on an open menu (Perform the corresponding command)
• F10 key (Activate the menu bar in the active program)
• RIGHT ARROW (Open the next menu to the right, or open a submenu)
• LEFT ARROW (Open the next menu to the left, or close a submenu)
• F5 key (Update the active window)
• BACKSPACE (View the folder one level up in My Computer or Windows Explorer)
• ESC (Cancel the current task)
• SHIFT when you insert a CD-ROM into the CD-ROM drive (Prevent the CD-ROM from automatically playing)
• CTRL+SHIFT+ESC (Open Task Manager)
Dialog box keyboard shortcuts
If you press SHIFT+F8 in extended selection list boxes, you enable extended selection mode. In this mode, you can use an arrow key to move a cursor without changing the selection. You can press CTRL+SPACEBAR or SHIFT+SPACEBAR to adjust the selection. To cancel extended selection mode, press SHIFT+F8 again. Extended selection mode cancels itself when you move the focus to another control.
• CTRL+TAB (Move forward through the tabs)
• CTRL+SHIFT+TAB (Move backward through the tabs)
• TAB (Move forward through the options)
• SHIFT+TAB (Move backward through the options)
• ALT+Underlined letter (Perform the corresponding command or select the corresponding option)
• ENTER (Perform the command for the active option or button)
• SPACEBAR (Select or clear the check box if the active option is a check box)
• Arrow keys (Select a button if the active option is a group of option buttons)
• F1 key (Display Help)
• F4 key (Display the items in the active list)
• BACKSPACE (Open a folder one level up if a folder is selected in the Save As or Open dialog box)
Microsoft natural keyboard shortcuts
• Windows Logo (Display or hide the Start menu)
• Windows Logo+BREAK (Display the System Properties dialog box)
• Windows Logo+D (Display the desktop)
• Windows Logo+M (Minimize all of the windows)
• Windows Logo+SHIFT+M (Restore the minimized windows)
• Windows Logo+E (Open My Computer)
• Windows Logo+F (Search for a file or a folder)
• CTRL+Windows Logo+F (Search for computers)
• Windows Logo+F1 (Display Windows Help)
• Windows Logo+ L (Lock the keyboard)
• Windows Logo+R (Open the Run dialog box)
• Windows Logo+U (Open Utility Manager)
Accessibility keyboard shortcuts
• Right SHIFT for eight seconds (Switch FilterKeys either on or off)
• Left ALT+left SHIFT+PRINT SCREEN (Switch High Contrast either on or off)
• Left ALT+left SHIFT+NUM LOCK (Switch the MouseKeys either on or off)
• SHIFT five times (Switch the StickyKeys either on or off)
• NUM LOCK for five seconds (Switch the ToggleKeys either on or off)
• Windows Logo +U (Open Utility Manager)
Windows Explorer keyboard shortcuts
• END (Display the bottom of the active window)
• HOME (Display the top of the active window)
• NUM LOCK+Asterisk sign (*) (Display all of the subfolders that are under the selected folder)
• NUM LOCK+Plus sign (+) (Display the contents of the selected folder)
• NUM LOCK+Minus sign (-) (Collapse the selected folder)
• LEFT ARROW (Collapse the current selection if it is expanded, or select the parent folder)
• RIGHT ARROW (Display the current selection if it is collapsed, or select the first subfolder)
Shortcut keys for Character Map
After you double-click a character on the grid of characters, you can move through the grid by using the keyboard shortcuts:
• RIGHT ARROW (Move to the right or to the beginning of the next line)
• LEFT ARROW (Move to the left or to the end of the previous line)
• UP ARROW (Move up one row)
• DOWN ARROW (Move down one row)
• PAGE UP (Move up one screen at a time)
• PAGE DOWN (Move down one screen at a time)
• HOME (Move to the beginning of the line)
• END (Move to the end of the line)
• CTRL+HOME (Move to the first character)
• CTRL+END (Move to the last character)
• SPACEBAR (Switch between Enlarged and Normal mode when a character is selected)
Microsoft Management Console (MMC) main window keyboard shortcuts
• CTRL+O (Open a saved console)
• CTRL+N (Open a new console)
• CTRL+S (Save the open console)
• CTRL+M (Add or remove a console item)
• CTRL+W (Open a new window)
• F5 key (Update the content of all console windows)
• ALT+SPACEBAR (Display the MMC window menu)
• ALT+F4 (Close the console)
• ALT+A (Display the Action menu)
• ALT+V (Display the View menu)
• ALT+F (Display the File menu)
• ALT+O (Display the Favorites menu)
MMC console window keyboard shortcuts
• CTRL+P (Print the current page or active pane)
• ALT+Minus sign (-) (Display the window menu for the active console window)
• SHIFT+F10 (Display the Action shortcut menu for the selected item)
• F1 key (Open the Help topic, if any, for the selected item)
• F5 key (Update the content of all console windows)
• CTRL+F10 (Maximize the active console window)
• CTRL+F5 (Restore the active console window)
• ALT+ENTER (Display the Properties dialog box, if any, for the selected item)
• F2 key (Rename the selected item)
• CTRL+F4 (Close the active console window. When a console has only one console window, this shortcut closes the console)
Remote desktop connection navigation
• CTRL+ALT+END (Open the Microsoft Windows NT Security dialog box)
• ALT+PAGE UP (Switch between programs from left to right)
• ALT+PAGE DOWN (Switch between programs from right to left)
• ALT+INSERT (Cycle through the programs in most recently used order)
• ALT+HOME (Display the Start menu)
• CTRL+ALT+BREAK (Switch the client computer between a window and a full screen)
• ALT+DELETE (Display the Windows menu)
• CTRL+ALT+Minus sign (-) (Place a snapshot of the entire client window area on the Terminal server clipboard and provide the same functionality as pressing ALT+PRINT SCREEN on a local computer.)
• CTRL+ALT+Plus sign (+) (Place a snapshot of the active window in the client on the Terminal server clipboard and provide the same functionality as pressing PRINT SCREEN on a local computer.)
Microsoft Internet Explorer navigation
• CTRL+B (Open the Organize Favorites dialog box)
• CTRL+E (Open the Search bar)
• CTRL+F (Start the Find utility)
• CTRL+H (Open the History bar)
• CTRL+I (Open the Favorites bar)
• CTRL+L (Open the Open dialog box)
• CTRL+N (Start another instance of the browser with the same Web address)
• CTRL+O (Open the Open dialog box, the same as CTRL+L)
• CTRL+P (Open the Print dialog box)
• CTRL+R (Update the current Web page)
• CTRL+W (Close the current window)
Kissing Explained
A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations.The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations.. . such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip...
And don't just leave kisses to the lips. Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids. This can be very seductive and romantic.
Basic Kissing Tips
Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.
If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss. Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.
Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction. Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners. Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
French Kissing
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.
Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.
Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.
Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
Suck Kissing
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
Nip KissingThis type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.
Surprise KissingThis type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
And don't just leave kisses to the lips. Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids. This can be very seductive and romantic.
Basic Kissing Tips
Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.
If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss. Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.
Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction. Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners. Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
French Kissing
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.
Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.
Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.
Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
Suck Kissing
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
Nip KissingThis type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.
Surprise KissingThis type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
Enjoy and remember the golden days
Enjoy and remember the golden days.........................Machhali Jal ki Rani haiJeewan uska paani haihath lagao darr jayegibahar nikalo mar jayegi...Jhooth bolna paap hainadi kinare saanp haikali mai aayegitumko utha le jayegi...Aaj somvar hai,chuhe ko bukhar haichuha gaya doctor ke passdoctor ne lagayi suichula bola ooooiiiiiTitlee udi,bus mein chadiseet na mili ,to rone lagidriver bola aaja mere passtitlee boli "hat badmash"Aalu-kachalu beta kaha gaye the bandar ki jhopdi mein so rahe thebandar ne laat maari ro rahe themummy ne paise diye has rahe theChanda mama door kepuye pakaye bhoor keaap khaye thali meinmunne ko de pyali meinAkkad bakkad bumbe bol80-90 pure 100100 mein laga dhagachor nikal ke bhaga...raja ki raani soti thimoti ki maala boti thi....meri roti kisne khaibhalu nebhalu to mere saath tha haathi nehaathi to mere saath thasher nesher bhi mere saath thahum ne..............Posham pa bhai posham padakuyon ne kya kiyasau(100) rupay ki ghadi churayiab to jail mein jana padega jail ki roti khana padegajail ka pani peena padegathayi thuiya thushmadari baba fushhhhhh....Ghoda jamal khayi,picche dekho maar khayiraste mein chalta thauski chiththi gir gayi kisi ne utha leelaad saab ko de dilaad saab ne phaad phood ke phenk di
Certain simple techniques to cope with our increasingly demanding work-styles..
Certain simple techniques to cope with our increasingly demanding work-styles.......
Suggestion:
Try not to use the intercom. Rather, walk to your colleagues and discussmatters.
Benefit:Stretches your back, and leg muscles. Helps build rapport withcolleagues. Relaxes your eyes and ears. Relaxes your neck.
Suggestion: Drink lots of water / liquids.
Benefit:Will require you to walk to the rest room regularly. Good stressbuster.
Suggestion:
Small meals at regular intervals.
Benefit:Keeps away acidity. Makes you walk to the cafeteria thus providingexercise.
Suggestion:Laughter is the best medicine.
Benefit:Hard works is good, but let us not lose our sense of humor. Learn tolaugh for everything. Stress buster, good for face muscles and eyes.Sharpens thinking capabilities. Mainly, laughter is contagious.
Suggestion:20, 20, 20, 20 rule.
Benefit:
Every 20 minutes, look at an object at least 20meters away for at least 20 seconds. After that blink your eyes 20 timesbefore you resume on the computer.Good for eyes, neck, back. You get to chose what object you want to look at!
Suggestion:Keep your feet firmly planted on the ground
Benefit:Good for back, neck and leg muscles. Keeps Ego in check!
Suggestion:Use an external mouse (Laptop users). Rest you elbow where ever possibleBenefit:Good for neck, back, arms, shoulders and wrist.
Suggestion:Ensure that you chair is adjusted to optimum height and the back-rest isadjusted to normal (rather than recline)Benefit:
Good for back and neckUse speaker-phones for long calls (calls for more than 20 minutes)Less stressful and enables more movement of the body.
Suggestion:Get it off you.
Benefit:
Talk to someone about anything that bothers you.All of us have stress. It is how we manage it.
Suggestion:
Make friends in office to whom you can open your heart out.
Benefit:Honest discussions very often provide answers to difficult situations. All of us spend 10 hours in office and we need to learn to enjoy those 10 hours.
Suggestion:
Try not to use the intercom. Rather, walk to your colleagues and discussmatters.
Benefit:Stretches your back, and leg muscles. Helps build rapport withcolleagues. Relaxes your eyes and ears. Relaxes your neck.
Suggestion: Drink lots of water / liquids.
Benefit:Will require you to walk to the rest room regularly. Good stressbuster.
Suggestion:
Small meals at regular intervals.
Benefit:Keeps away acidity. Makes you walk to the cafeteria thus providingexercise.
Suggestion:Laughter is the best medicine.
Benefit:Hard works is good, but let us not lose our sense of humor. Learn tolaugh for everything. Stress buster, good for face muscles and eyes.Sharpens thinking capabilities. Mainly, laughter is contagious.
Suggestion:20, 20, 20, 20 rule.
Benefit:
Every 20 minutes, look at an object at least 20meters away for at least 20 seconds. After that blink your eyes 20 timesbefore you resume on the computer.Good for eyes, neck, back. You get to chose what object you want to look at!
Suggestion:Keep your feet firmly planted on the ground
Benefit:Good for back, neck and leg muscles. Keeps Ego in check!
Suggestion:Use an external mouse (Laptop users). Rest you elbow where ever possibleBenefit:Good for neck, back, arms, shoulders and wrist.
Suggestion:Ensure that you chair is adjusted to optimum height and the back-rest isadjusted to normal (rather than recline)Benefit:
Good for back and neckUse speaker-phones for long calls (calls for more than 20 minutes)Less stressful and enables more movement of the body.
Suggestion:Get it off you.
Benefit:
Talk to someone about anything that bothers you.All of us have stress. It is how we manage it.
Suggestion:
Make friends in office to whom you can open your heart out.
Benefit:Honest discussions very often provide answers to difficult situations. All of us spend 10 hours in office and we need to learn to enjoy those 10 hours.
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Chanakya's Quotes - Worth Learning
*************************************************** "A person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and Honest people are screwed first." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC 75 BC) *************************************************** "Even if a snake is not poisonous, it should pretend to be venomous." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275 BC) *************************************************** "The biggest guru-mantra is: Never share your secrets with anybody. ! It will destroy you." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275 BC) *************************************************** "There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is noFriendship without self-interests. This is a bitter truth." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275 BC) *************************************************** "Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions - Why am I doing it, What the results might be and Will I be successful. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275 BC) *************************************************** "As soon as the fear approaches near, attack and destroy it." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275 BC) *************************************************** "Once you start a working on something, don't be afraid of failure and don't abandon it. People who work sincerely are the happiest." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275BC) *************************************************** "The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all direction." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275BC) *************************************************** "Whores don't live in company of poor men, citizens never support a weak company and birds don't build nests on a tree that doesn't bear fruits." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275BC) *************************************************** "God is not present in idols. Your feelings are your god. The soul is your temple." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275BC) *************************************************** "A man is great by deeds, not by birth." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275BC) *************************************************** "Never make friends with people who are above or below you in status. Such friendships will never give you any happiness." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275BC) *************************************************** "Treat your kid like a darling for the first five years. For the next five years, scold them. By the time they turn sixteen, treat them like a friend. Your grown up children are your best friends." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275BC) *************************************************** "Books are as useful to a stupid person as a mirror is useful to a blind person." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275BC) *************************************************** "Education is the best friend. An educated person is respected everywhere. Education beats the beauty and the youth." Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC-275BC) *************************************************************************************
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